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10 Rules in Femdom Relationship

10 Rules in Femdom Relationship

1. Respect for Women

2. Submission to Female Authority

3. Service to Mistress

4. Female Body Worship

5. Obedience Training & Discipline

6. Tease & Denial

7. Enforced Male Chastity & Strict Orgasm Control

8. Strap-On Training

9. Discomfiture & Humiliation

10. Cuckolding

You might not practice all 10 of this rules. Would be interesting to know whats the most common. Comment how many of this included in your relationship.

 

9 Comments

  1. I showed this to my wife, and she agrees with most, except #10. Cuckolding is not natural for most women. Yes, maybe they fantasize about another man on occasion, but the act is not something most will do. Men fantasize about it all the time for 2 basic reasons:
    First, we love to see our women get pleasure, whether it’s us doing it, helping with her toys, or just watching her masturbate. It is a huge turn on watching a woman orgasm (as opposed to men, we look deformed). So, the cuckolding fantasy is our way of seeing our woman get satisfied in a way we can’t satisfy her. Cuckolding is the ULTIMATE act of selflessness and submission.
    The second reason is our femdom/submissive fantasy. Keep in mind, if you are trying to get her to do it for that reason, she will probably resist, because it’s not her fantasy, but yours.
    The best way to get her started into thinking about bringing another sex partner into your relationship is to allow her to masturbate on her own with toys you buy for her. The best site I’ve used, is Too Timid.com. It’s owned by women and geared toward women.
    So, keep buying larger and larger toys and let her show you how inadequate you are. Pretty soon, she will start craving bigger and bigger toys, to the point that she won’t want your tiny member any longer. (My wife now reminds me while she’s masturbating with her 8″ vibrator, that it feels so much better than my little dick. It turns me on and seems to turn her on even more. I jerk-off while she’s doing it and we usually climax together that way!!)
    At that point, she may (or may not) start to fantasize about a younger man with a bigger dick who can keep it hard longer than you. Support that fantasy for her and keep reminding her not to be ashamed of her fantasy. Then, give her opportunities to flirt with big, young men – which is always flattering for middle-aged women – and see where it goes. Even offer to pay for a hotel room for her and her new ‘lover’ but don’t expect to participate right away.
    Give her time and let her enjoy her new freedom. when she gets back, love her, cuddle her and thank her for exploring her fantasies. NEVER, EVER show jealousy, and don’t ask questions!! Just be happy knowing that she experienced sexual pleasure that you can’t give her. It really is an amazing act of trust, honesty, and love.

    • Thanks so much Steve for submitting your experience and feelings. Sorry about the late reply. Been away for couple of months. Back on now. Slowly catching up. This is the true meaning of Femdom. As you say ‘It really is an amazing act of trust, honesty, and love’. I like to promote this in this website. I dont want anyone to miss this, so I am going to post this in to separate post.

  2. ok

  3. May I translate this post into Spanish for my blog? Everything you have got here is so interesting! I would give your name as author, of course.

    Thanks

  4. I have never been in an official femdom relationship. This being said, all girlfriends I had took the dominant role, by default. If I think back, most of those rules were in play in some subtle ways, exception made for the Strap-on (8)

    In each of those relationships, the first 4 rules were there from day one. I am a nice guy. And I am compliant with women. Humiliations (9) and some sexual control (7) started not long after.

    The first humiliation I face in a new relationship is to have a hard time performing. By shyness, it is not easy for me to maintain a functional erection with someone new. And when I do, I have a hard time reaching orgasm. So for me, doing oral sex is not an option. My orgasm doesn’t play a determining role in sexual play.

    I found out most women share with their female friends these intimate details. It doesn’t take long before there is a change in attitude around me. I guess this is the discomfiture (9) that comes with my shyness and a more submissive nature.

    It took me a long time to understand and come to peace with that. Now, I understand those women were mostly dominant by nature, but still pursuing a conventional relationship. They felt disappointed with what they got. I felt unappreciated, anxious and not at my place. We both had something in common. We were unaware of what we needed at a deeper level.

    I found out instead of fighting to become what I am not, while becoming more and more unhappy in the process, I could simply accept it, be more open about it, and seek the company of women who clearly enjoy a submissive partner. Now, when a woman comments about the fact that I am “single and must certainly enjoy life…” I feel confident enough to correct the assumption behind a question like that.

    I do not have a big femdom fantasy in mind. I have nothing against it. For me, it’s not a set of scenarios but more an energy between 2 individuals. I can relate to the 10 rules, it is not far from a typical relationship of the 50’s, just in reverse. It is easier for me to understand if I use the 50’s as my reference. I know I need the gentle authority of a woman to direct my intimate, sensual, emotional and sexual life.

    Thank you for posting your 10 rules. :)

    • Thank you for sharing you thoughts Michel. I appreciate.

  5. I agree with Steve, cuckolding can not be okay for every women or male. By the way, nice rules

    • Realy nice rules.

  6. Let me see if I comply to the 10 rules:

    1. Respect for Women – Yes I absolutely respect women and want to see a woman be the first President of the United States

    2. Submission to Female Authority – I am married almost 33 years and have been submissive to my wife almost 32+ years.

    3. Service to Mistress – My Mistress is my wife and I serve as her sissy husband and maid at home. In the colder months I shave completely and wear pretty lingerie to please her. Our lingerie is my responsibility to wash fold or hang. She has me happily panty trained and I am slowly collecting bras that fit my small breasts.

    4. Female Body Worship – I bathe and shave her as requested and enjoy offering her oral pleasure with nothing expected in return.

    5. Obedience Training & Discipline – I have purchased for her paddles, wooden handled straps, crops and canes and she uses them on me routinely. In a moments notice she can tell me to be over her lap and I will accept a hand spanking. She carries a small wooden paddle in her purse for punishment when needed outside of the house.

    6. Tease & Denial – As I mentioned above, I will orally please her and expect nothing in return. Many a night I have gone to bed with the taste of her pussy and ass on my tongue and a hard erection.

    7. Enforced Male Chastity & Strict Orgasm Control – We tried chastity but I am too large for most chastity devices. Now we practice enforced masturbation and I must ask permission and kneel so she can see me squirt..

    8. Strap-On Training – She has a good leather harness and several dildos she likes to use on me. I can ejaculate when pegged.

    9. Discomfiture & Humiliation – I am branded with two hearts (interlocking) and I will soon be using the tanning salon for a thong bikini tan. She takes me panty and bra shopping and makes me wear lingerie for all outings.

    10. Cuckolding – We do not do this but I would do as she asked if requested.

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